Yeah, you're completely right. Honestly everyone in this thread has been spot on so far, working through answering each of you one at a time.
And yes, measured my stomach again Monday, down another inch. Total belly loss is sitting near 18 inches at this point. That's massive, I had a genuinely huge gut when this journey started and it's just not there anymore. Arms are getting defined too, smaller than I'd ultimately like but noticeably cut, midsection's still pretty square and blocky honestly, but that's fine, throw a shirt over it and I pass for lean easily enough.
Pretty convinced the body image distortion thing is real too, even hitting my actual goal I'd probably still feel oversized in my head.
And yeah, body composition's definitely shifting. You're right that patience matters more than speed here. It's a marathon, not a sprint.