But that wasn't your situation, you weren't at 15mg and hadn't tried the advice laid out across so many other posts yet. Went ten months myself without losing anything. Recently got properly focused again and it's helping the same way it used to.
Grief makes everything so much harder, but pushing up to 15mg while actually tracking, adding fiber, all of it, will show whether it can actually help. This stuff simply doesn't do the work by itself, that much I've learned the hard way!!