same here, physically and emotionally. down 30 pounds, genuinely changes how i move, stomach used to get in the way squatting. going obese to overweight on the chart felt like a real milestone. / / two kids, im in my 40s, realistic that my 20s body isnt coming back. but looking at old photos, i looked great, better than i credited myself then. keeping that in mind, trying to be kinder about my look now. / / daughter wrapped middle school struggling with this feeling everyone was judging her, when really most kids absorbed in their own stuff. now older i dont think people care as much about appearance, so i dont stress. / / what pushed you to lose weight, beyond wanting to be smaller? feeling strong, staying healthy, being desired, no matter the reason, weight itself is only one piece.