Clothing sizes are messing w/my head!

Better_Basics_66

Better_Basics_66

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I've been on this weight loss thing for like, almost 3 years now, first with one drug, then another. I'm totally good with how long it's taking, but I'm having a weird identity crisis. I've been a bigger girl since kindergarten. Never bought regular-sized clothes. Last year, when I posted wedding pics, people told me my clothes didn't fit. So I started buying clothes that did. Back then, I was an XL, size 16. Crazy! A friend said I'm not an XL anymore. Didn't believe her. But she was right. I bought a large dress online and it fit. I thought the dress just ran big, even though it's a brand that runs small.

Today? I went to a department store and tried on a dress. It fit. I tried on a few more. They all fit. I'm a size large? I walked through the non-plus-size section. It was intense! Feels good, but weird. Does anyone else feel this way?

I'm so thankful. Back in May, I had major surgery. I don't think the doctor would have done it without the weight loss. Or if he did, it would have been super risky. Recovery was hard, but normal-hard, not extra-hard.

I started at 310 lbs. Now I'm at 170. The last 15 lbs have been a total slog, because I've been slacking 'cause I'm a new stepmom who works full-time. It's hard to cook healthy every day. I'm still losing, but slow. That's ok! I'm good with the slow-down. I'm not gonna gain, but I'm gonna enjoy being a healthier size large.

I love seeing everyone's journeys here. This place helps me keep going! You got this!!! ❤️
 
That's incredible! Congrats! ❤️

I think the hardest thing about shopping after losing weight is all the choices. Bigger sizes are limited, so you just pick clothes that fit. Now there's so much to pick, and it all looks good!
 
You look wonderful! I'm thrilled for you! So inspiring – there are plenty of us slow responders out here. Your story gives us hope and encourages us to hang in there! It's tough seeing people drop weight fast. You stuck with it, even during surgery! Thank you for sharing. Enjoy your new body and life!
 
Your writing is so calm. The balance of thoughts and feelings is so rare for newbies. I'm so glad you're satisfied and grateful! Reading your post is lovely. It shows real success because it took time and effort. Thanks for your words. They're a light for those of us still on this journey. Congrats!
 
Your mindset rocks. Being grateful and giving yourself time to adapt is awesome! You've been heavier all your life, so your body needs time to adjust to the new normal. You get it, and that's great. Thanks for sharing! You're an inspiration!
 
Yeah, I get it. Once I lost 60 lbs, I kept taking the meds, but didn't eat as well. It took like 3 months to get used to being smaller. Now I feel good about moving forward. 20 more to go.
 
Great job! I get the dressing-your-body thing! I was an XL a while and now feel good. Now I'm a healthy weight. I'm shocked that I wear a size 8! I still prefer baggy clothes and need to learn how to dress. It's overwhelming since so many more things look good now. I had my daughter help me shop. I'm still learning after 3 months of maintenance!
Great job & love your attitude!
 
I can relate to the stalling! I've been losing super slowly, too. Like 3 lbs a month recently, but I'm losing inches. Don't give up if you stall! I stall every 10 lbs that I lose, sometimes for months. I exercise 5 times a week. I swim. I don't diet, but I watch my portions. I still eat pizza, but just a little slice instead of 3! 😉 I also try to cut out sugar and limit carbs.
 
Better_Basics_66 said:
I can relate to the stalling! I've been losing super slowly, too. Like 3 lbs a month recently, but I'm losing inches. Don't give up if you stall! I stall every 10 lbs that I lose, sometimes for months.
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That's good to know. I've been stuck for a few weeks now, and I was starting to get worried. I'll keep going.
 
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