Down almost 100lbs - sharing my story

Salad_Dude

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Hello everyone, I'm posting to share my weight loss journey and hopefully give some encouragement. For a decade I struggled. I had an eating disorder in my youth and was quite thin back then. I'm 5'6" and used to be around 120lbs until about 2012. After that, I tried all sorts of stuff, every diet you can imagine (except keto), countless workout plans, coaches, trainers, spending hours at the gym. Since 2007, I have been dedicated to this but could never get below 175lbs! Working in healthcare and the gyms closing for a year and a half really made things worse. I moved, got a new gym membership, tried new activities and diets but still couldn't get below 200, eventually hitting 215. I tried all kinds of fitness - spin, powerlifting, bodybuilding. In late Sept '22, I asked a bodybuilder for help, and he connected me with someone who crafted a diet that helped me lose about 20lbs over 6 months. It was a real diet plan with 215g carbs slowly reduced to 100g with higher protein. After all that effort, I asked my doctor about a GLP-1... and the pounds melted off. I was dropping 5lbs every few days! The progress was so motivating. Then supply issues happened, and I switched to another GLP-1 when it became available. That one was even MORE effective, but then it was also hard to get. I went back to the first one and kept going. From Sept '22 to Sept '23, I lost around 85lbs. This month marks a year of maintaining under 130lbs. (And in January I'll hit a year under 125lbs). The first GLP-1 no longer works well for me; when I had to use it again this summer, I immediately gained about 8lbs. I'm currently using a low maintenance dose and stay around 120-125lbs. I can eat pretty much anything now (in moderation). I used to have trouble breathing during workouts, but my blood pressure and resting heart rate have improved. I stopped going to the gym in early '22 and just walk about 4-5 miles per day. There have been some downsides. Muscle loss has caused back pain, and I was officially diagnosed with scoliosis and kyphosis. The kyphosis existed before, but it wasn't diagnosed until now. My body compensating for that pain has triggered an old back injury. However, I have drastically reduced the risk of other health problems. I've dealt with rude comments at work for the last year or so about my weight loss, being too skinny, looking ill, and being asked if I have an ED or cancer. It's been draining, but it's calmed down now. To those who are on a similar journey, or considering one, your reasons are valid. You deserve the body you want and better health. Take photos and measurements along the way. I didn't, and I regret it because I didn't think it would work.
 
Congrats! That's awesome. I'm a nurse and I've lost over 80lbs and went from a size 2x scrubs to a M. I have about 20lbs to go to hit my 100lb goal.
 
Fantastic transformation! You did an outstanding job.
Salad_Dude said:
I have been bullied at work for the past year and a half, with coworkers commenting numerous times a shift about my weight, weightloss, that I look sick, look too skinny, I've been asked if I have an eating disorder or cancer.
Some people try to bring you down when you do well because they are envious. Ignore them. You did this for yourself, and living a happy, healthy life is your reward!
 
Awesome work! I bet you feel great. Don't let the haters bother you. You were beautiful before and you look fantastic now. Thank you for the inspiration; I just started a GLP-1 today!
 
I'm amazed by the lack of sensitivity to weight loss in the medical community. You'd think they'd be the most supportive. You look healthy and fit in your photos, I'm happy the noise has died down. Eventually they will see you for the person you are now, not the weight you lost. Are you on the west coast? There are some physical therapy clinics that focus on scoliosis - I'm sure you can find a similar clinic wherever you live. I saw them on social media and the changes they make are impressive. Since you're in healthcare, maybe you know about this already, but I thought I would share in case its helpful.
 
Wow! Our situations are so similar. Years of disordered eating and a starting weight around 215. My natural weight is close to yours. You look great. I have about 45lbs left, and it feels like a long road.
 
I have a similar experience with weight gain and my efforts to maintain my health. It's exhausting. Embracing walking has been freeing and joyful. I've tried everything: endocrinologist, weight loss coaching, retreats, fitness training, even a body composition competition (I came in second). I have also run a marathon and done a triathlon. The weight just crept back on. The gym felt like a grind. Since 2005, I have the receipts. What the heck? Giving up that aspect was difficult; it had become a big part of my identity. Do I really want to spend so much time each week trying to be healthy? Thank you for mentioning how people react when you become healthier. They might think you're cheating because they've seen all your efforts. Did they think we were dishonest all this time? GLP-1 meds provide positive reinforcement (maintaining weight) with healthy choices. Today I feel bloated, so I'm increasing my low dose slightly. I think my muscles store glycogen easily because I have a high muscle content for my age. The meds make my muscles lean and tight, which feels good. I eat keto (under 50g carbs) and do intermittent fasting to keep inflammation down.
 
I'm about 37lbs lighter but I'm tall, so I feel like no one notices LOL. I'm hoping it's visible soon. It's frustrating when you don't feel the change yourself too!
 
Health_Great529 said:
I'm about 37lbs lighter but I'm tall, so I feel like no one notices LOL. I'm hoping it's visible soon. It's frustrating when you don't feel the change yourself too!
I hear you! I'm right around 5'9" and found that I needed to lose almost 50 pounds before people started commenting. It's still worth it! Keep going!
 
Your story about food being the real addiction really hits home. I get it - you're not just fighting weight you're fighting the psychological piece. Bariatric surgery got me to 140 but I ended up gaming it and eating around the restriction, gained back to 175. Now on tirz and finally hopeful I can beat this.
 
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