I hear you! Everybody wants to lose, yet you'll see people posting about weeks or months with no loss, and if you ask whether their calories actually sat under what their pounds-per-week target needs, most stop replying and the downvotes start. The med makes eating less far easier and helps fix our internal imbalances, but a diet loaded with calories still wins. It may sound harsh, but steady loss requires certainty about your deficit. Certain about the deficit and still nothing for ages? See a doctor, another cause is at play!!